Etiquette embrace Kiss When shaking hands

Hugs and kisses when a handshake is a sign of closeness that has become common sights. But that does not mean all people get used to it. Here are tips from Mien R. Uno in his book, Etiquette: Success Brings Self at all opportunities to you about the etiquette of kissing embrace.

Before you embrace to kiss someone

Watch really her body language. No need to hesitate to do when he looked awkward and did not have the same desire. But, if a bit stiff posture, be careful! That could be a strong indication that he was not used or do not want hugs kisses. Do not trigger offense. Just shake his hand tightly. He’s not hate you, he only had good reason to not do it, could be due to customs reasons, religion, or because he was not comfortable doing it.

Who took the initiative to hug-kiss?

So no one steps, first consider the situation. In formal situations, typically an older or seniorlah that will take the initiative to do it first as a signal that he wants to familiar and not make the distance. If the other person’s age, who’s initiative is not a big problem.

If  a hug-kiss when meeting someone

Accept with reasonable face with water as calm as possible. If you are clumsy, others will feel it. Believe me, it’s just a sign that you are regarded as a familiar and close to the hearts of people who hug and kiss you. There was no other purpose. So, no need to hesitate to respond with a light but warm.

If people who embrace kiss leaving lipstick on your cheek?

Do not rush to delete by hand! This will cause bad feeling in the hearts of people who just kissed you. Nothing is impossible if he was offended by it. Eliminate as he passed. But, usually the peninggal stains will wake up “signs” which he handed to you and try to delete it.

If you shake someone’s hand but did not want hugs kiss

- You can stop the man handshake with a warm hand holding. Place your hands lightly on his upper arm. Keep talking and maintain eye contact warm and sincere. He’ll know what you mean. Afraid he offended? Ah, relax. Your eyes are sincere explained everything, really.

- Shake hands clasped problem with your palms with a slight nod or raised both hands high. That way, you create a “barrier” to each other. What is important, make eye contact a sincere and friendly.

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6 Responses to “Etiquette embrace Kiss When shaking hands”

  1. Nur Kurniawati Says:
    January 5, 2010 at 6:32 pm

    I like it…i always do it if i met my Close Friend n my Boy Friend of course…
    :-)

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